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Resources for Survivor Support 

If you have been a victim of any form of gender-based violence (including sexual assault, domestic violence, dating violence, or stalking) there are resources
that can help. Below are all of the Resources on and off campus, but we also have this Resource and Referral Guide to show what options survivors have for reporting and confidential support. 

Counseling Center

Whether you are currently in an abusive relationship, are a survivor, or just want to talk about healthy relationships, boundaries, or consent in a confidential and safe space, the Benedictine University Counseling Center is available to support you. We offer free, confidential counseling services for our students. To schedule a virtual appointment, call us at (630) 829-1800 or find more information here

YWCA of Metropolitan Chicago

2055 E Army Trail Road, #140
Addison, IL 60101
(630) 790-6600

Hotline Number: (630) 971-3927
https://ywcachicago.org/our-work/sexual-violence-support-services/

The YWCA offers:

  • Rape Crisis Hotline
  • Individual or Group Counseling
  • Medical and Legal Advocacy
  • Prevention Training
  • Crisis Management and Resource Connection
  • Confidential Advising

 

Family Shelter Service of Metropolitan Family Services

605 E. Roosevelt Road
Wheaton, IL 60187
https://www.metrofamily.org/fssofmfsd/
Hotline (630) 469-5650


FSS offers:

  • 24-hour Domestic Violence Hotline 
  • Emergency Shelter
  • Support Groups
  • Individual and Group counseling for adults and children
  • Orders of Protection
  • Legal and court advocacy
  • Safety Planning
  • Case management/Connection to resources
  • Prevention Education
Arab American Family Services

7000 W. 111th St. 

Worth, IL 60482
(708) 599-2237
aafsil.org
Hotline: (708) 945-7600


The AAFS Speak Up Program offers:

  • 24-Hour Hotline 
  • Safety Planning
  • Crisis Management
  • Individual and Group Counseling
  • Prevention Training
  • Legal and Court Advocacy
  • Employment Assistance
  • Education Assistance
  • Recource Connection and Case Management
ACE Center

Individuals who have experienced Gender-Based Violence have a right to accommodations to assist them to feeling safe and being able to continue their educational experience. Examples of accommodations include: 

  • Housing adjustments
  • Switching class schedule
  • Academic accommodations

To discuss what accommodations may be right for you, contact Taffie Duzan, Associate Director of Disability Services and Learning Specialist, at tduzan@ben.edu. Vist the Ace Center for more information. 

Safe Space Allies

Individuals may experience gender-based violence regardless of sex, sexual orientation, or gender identity. If someone would prefer to receive support from someone who has gone through Safe Space Ally training, these individuals can be located on the Safe Space Ally Directory or by seeing a Safe Space Ally placard on their office space. 

Prevention Peer Educators

Our Prevention Peer Educators work with our PEACE team to provide violence prevention training and programming to the campus community. They are also available for peer support to help students understand their rights and options for services and reporting gender-based violence on and off campus. Find out more about our current Prevention Peer Educators here

The Trevor Project

The Trevor Project is a 24/7 crisis intervention and suicide prevention hotline for LGBTQ+ youth. The hotline number is (866)488-7386 and their website is www.thetrevorproject.org. 

Reporting Options

It is always your right to decide whether or not you report an incident(s) of gender-based violence to University Police or University Officials. Survivors or bystanders who report, in good faith, any of these incidents will NOT receive a sanction under the Student Code of Conduct as per the Good Samaritan Exemption. The safety of our students and community members is our top priority. 

Title IX

Individuals can report gender-based violence that occurs on campus to our Title IX Coordinator by contacting them directly, filing an anonymous report on the web page, or reporting to an Official With Authority. View our full Title IX Policy and more information here

Dr. Tammy Sarver

Title IX Coordinator

Scholl Hall 228L

5700 College Rd., Lisle, IL 60532

(630) 829-6473

tsarver@ben.edu

 

Dr. Julie Cowgill
Deputy Title IX Coordinator

Gillett Hall 230

225 E. Main St. Mesa, AZ 85201
(480) 878-6703
jcowgill@ben.edu

University Police

Our Benedictine University Police are available on campus 24/7. 

Non-Emergency number: (630)829-6122

In an emergency, call 911. 

Campus Security Authorities

Campus Security Authorities (CSAs) are select members of the Benedictine University community who are responsible for reporting crimes on or near campus that are reported to them. Find a list of Campus Security Authorities for the Lisle and Mesa Campus here

Student Conduct

Additional reporting options of gender-based violence can be reported through our Student Conduct process. For more information or to file a report, contact Marco Masini, Dean of Students at (630) 829-6006. 

CARE Team

Members of our Benedictine Community may also complete a Campus Response Evaluation (CARE) Team referral if they are concerned about the well-being or safety of a student, faculty, staff member, or guest on campus. More information and the CARE Team Referral Form can be found here

How to Support a Survivor

If someone comes to you to report an incident of gender based violence (sexual assault, domestic violence, dating violence, or stalking) it generally means that you are someone that they trust. How you respond to their disclosure can have a significant impact on how they heal and view future relationships. Benedictine University cares about every member of our community and has resources available to both you and the survivor.

Here are some tips to guide you as you support the survivor:

 

Listen and believe the survivor

False reports are not common and it is far more likely that a survivor will choose not to report. It is likely difficult for the survivor to talk to someone about this experience and they chose you. Also, keep in mind that unless you are a police officer or Title IX Coordinator, it is not your job to investigate. If you are a faculty or staff member it is your responsibility to report the incident, but otherwise your role is supporting the person who came to you. Do not pressure them to share more than they are comfortable with or make promises you may not be able to keep.

suggestions for what to say:

"I am so sorry this happened to you."

"Thank you for trusting me with this."

"What can I do to help?"

Remind the survivor it is not their fault

Avoid "Why" questions since they are often victim blaming. Gender based violence is only the fault of the perpetrator.  It does not matter what they were wearing, where they were, or what they were doing. No one deserves to be assaulted. Let them know that survivors or bystanders who report, in good faith, any incident of violence will not be sanctioned as an alcohol or drug violation on campus.  

Ask what you can do to help or offer further support

Do not try to pressure the survivor to make choices. Survivors often have experienced relationships or events in which their power has been taken from them. How they heal or what they choose to do next is up to them. Explain what options are available to them and support them in any way you can. Offer to go to a counseling session with them or go with them to report. Express concern, but do not judge what they choose to do.

suggestions for what to say:

"I understand that this is probably overwhelming. You can take things one step at a time. What is your highest priority?"

Encourage them to seek medical attention as soon as possible if the violence was sexual or physical

Whether a survivor chooses to get medical attention or not is their choice, but let them know that this is an option and their right. Let them know that the sooner they go, the better chance that the healthcare staff will be able to find evidence. Medical attention may also be necessary in treating injuries. A survivor can also choose to talk through these options with a victim advocate. Advocates are able to go with survivors to medical and legal visits. A list of hospitals and victim advocates are on our Resource and Referral guide.

Take care of yourself too

You may also feel strong emotions about what happened to the survivor. Know that it is okay and normal to feel this way and that you are not alone. Resources are available for you too. Also, know your limits. If you do not know what to do, reach out for help. You do not have to have all the answers. If you are seeking assistance on campus you can reach out to the Counseling Center in the Krasa Student Center (Room 112), the Title IX Coordinator, Tammy Sarver, or the Violence Against Women Act Grant Coordinator, Bernadette Ramsden. You can also reach the University Police Department by calling (630) 829-6122 (non-emergency) or calling 911.

 

Bernadette Ramsden, LSW
Violence Against Women Act Grant Coordinator
(630) 829-1326
bramsden@ben.edu

Tammy Sarver, Ph.D.
Title IX Coordinator
Professor, Political Science
Scholl Hall, Room 228L
(630) 829-6473
tsarver@ben.edu